she’s just not a very active person online. when she is, shes only active in group chats with her friends.

usually, she talks about video games, and is actually offline because she plays video games almost all the time.

is there any way to salvage the relationship? she’s too focused on her interests to be interested in mine, and like I said, is almost always playing games so we barely talk aside from: “hi ❤️” “Hi sweetie ❤️” “hru??” “Good, just playing games, you?” “good :)) im listening to music” and then the conversation ends because she doesn’t message first and is busy with the other stuff.

(i have tried talking to her and she says she’s usually busy. shes either genuinely busy, busy with games, or in a bad mood and doesn’t feel like talking [sad/tired])

  • gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    8 hours ago

    it’s normal for people to talk less over time, and it’s also normal for relationships to just fade away, don’t worry too much, and don’t blame yourself, either; it’s just normal. move on and find somebody else who you like, and who wants to spend time with you.