• CarbonatedPastaSauce@lemmy.world
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      21 days ago

      You have no idea the mental gymnastics zealots can get up to.

      My grandmother was a fanatical roman catholic and she swore that all the stories about priests diddling little kids were a conspiracy by the rest of the world to discredit Catholicism.

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        21 days ago

        I’ll add that there’s an element of denial and fear at losing community. For most ex-Christians I know, losing that familiar community is the last thing to go during their deconstruction. They might not believe in anything that’s taught anymore, but leaving behind that community means isolation for a while and having to build new friendships and support systems.

        So zealotry is definitely a component, but don’t discount fear of being an outcast, either.

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      19 days ago

      Honestly I’m more surprised that so many didn’t show up. That’s never been my experience.