Hi Lemons 😉

I was wondering what sort of things turn men on visually and personality wise? Same question for women?

And how come we don’t have more active users interested in sharing nsfw pictures, roleplaying and just other stuff? So much potential but still not many users?

  • Neeka@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    1 month ago

    Cool question. As for me I’m not really attracted by physical attributes.

    Personality wise I get turned on by curiousity, adventurousness, and intelligence. I’ve given in entirely to my sapiosexuality :P

    Physically I mostly enjoy healthy bodies of any variety, I’m a sucker for a strong core, although mostly because it lends itself to more interesting sex. Attraction wise I do enjoy a smile, that concentrated look of doing something they enjoy, and/or being out of their mind horny.

    So for me, pictures work best when there’s a story, a relation, a doing. BDSM has a strong tradition of providing that in pictures, at least through power imbalance if not settings, clothing, toys, and breathless looks.

    Also, more commonly here, exhibitionists enjoying themselves ;)