For the last decade or so, my SO and I have been more or less dividing our expenses, and Venmo/ PayPal-ing the other as needed (rent, etc).
I know a lot of couples use a shared account that they both contribute to via direct deposit. How many of you do this? Any drawbacks or other options I haven’t mentioned?
It’s interesting that none of the financial institutions you have an individual account with provide an ATM that’s close to you. I mostly use resources like https://www.visa.com/locator/atm (or whatever the website of my financial institution directs me to) to find an ATM to use. There is pretty much always an ATM nearby for the debit cards I actually have (note that I usually say to not set up a debit card for accounts since that increases my risk for fraud with minimal upsides for me).
If I was in your situation and was single, I’d open an account with a bank that provided an ATM that’s close to me and/or had lots of ATMs around the country, and just keep $100 in that account so it doesn’t get closed for inactivity, and then transfer money to it when I knew I’d have to get cash soon.
Well, there’s a fee for using those ATMs, though my credit union reimburses (up to a certain amount). So, it does work and did work for many years before I met my wife. I’d get cash back at the grocery store, usually, and avoid the ATM fee issue. There might be local ATMs that are free, but I doubt it. I haven’t looked.
I was thinking larger sums of money, though. Recently I had my eye on a used bicycle for sale locally, and the seller wanted cash. I ended up not doing it, but getting $2500 in cash wasn’t going to be easy with the credit union. The local bank would have been much easier, just drop in (during their open hours) and do a withdraw. It’s a rare situation, but that’s the kind of thing that comes up.
Similarly, before mobile deposit, I had to mail them checks to deposit, with all the delays and risks associated with that.
Your solution works, but you have to watch the minimums. I’m pretty sure my wife’s account has a minimum balance (which may be $500, I don’t remember), and some banks require you to have direct deposit set up or you have to pay a fee for the account.