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  • They are trying, yes. I have a kid at a state school in a science major and she isn’t getting any of that. The one in high school is getting ripped off but honestly they do call the kids by their chosen names and just ignore a lot of the culture war rules.

    I think it’s hitting the K-12 education department at the universities harder, and anyone coming here for an education degree is making a mistake already.



  • RBWells@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlBest universities for women?
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    We are in Florida and the universities are fine, except for the loss of the New College (may RDS rot in hell for what he did to that school). But if they are interested in engineering they wouldn’t have needed the free school.

    If it’s cool here, it’s probably fine everywhere. Colleges are filled with kids from different places.


  • Maybe tea would suit you better? It contains the L-Theanine others here have recommended, and usually has less caffeine.

    You could also just make smaller servings if you want to drink coffee twice, literally just use a smaller cup, or don’t fill it all the way?

    Aeropress might be good too - it makes a nice strong tasting cup of coffee but the water is not in contact with the coffee for as long as it is for drip coffee.





  • My regular shampoo is Malibu C Hard Water Wellness, it is not too harsh and works so well in our water. Not Pert cheap but can get it for around $30 a liter usually and that lasts me a looong time. I love that stuff. Doesn’t dry out my hair, does clean and rinses clean.




  • The cocktail-averse I know all seem to like:

    Margarita

    Paloma

    Pineapple, whiskey and lime

    Mojito

    You do not need to enjoy cocktails, there is plenty of other food and drink to build a palate, but if you want to learn to like the spirits and liqueurs in them, fizzy water is a way - I find whiskey & tequila in particular too strong to be able to taste and enjoy them, and most liqueurs way too sweet, but one shot in a glass of Topo Chico or other good fizzy water to dilute them? That lets me actually taste what people enjoy about them. Which then lets me think about what I might like them mixed with.

    And I would like to plug !cocktails@lemmy.world we can make recommendations based on what you already like.


  • It’s harder to think about “enough” in places like India (or even the US) where there is so much inequality.

    But I would define “enough” as comfortable. Not worried about bills, buying whatever groceries you want, a good living situation and enough cushion that an emergency won’t make you homeless.

    The addiction to more, more, more is a disorder like hoarding is.




  • There are two answers for me. Sometimes I stop and think my way out of it and am ok after a couple hours, I can let it go.

    Sometimes I just get angrier and angrier as I think about it, and in that situation I must talk to the other party. That usually takes a day or two because it takes me that long to realize I’m not gonna calm down, am still mad. But every time this has happened, the other party has apologized because they, in the same intervening time, have realized they were being asshole-ish.

    Nobody I know takes that long to tell me, if I am being asshole-ish. It can take me an hour or so to calm down and apologize.

    All of this assumes good intentions on all sides. My ex, you couldn’t back down or apologize with him, he saw it as weakness and would mock, was terrible at fighting.