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TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto politics @lemmy.world•Why AOC should run for president in 20281·4 hours agois he up for reelection in 2028?? damn, i’d take an AOC Senator over another term of Schumer with a failed AOC presidency run and Trump still in the white house
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansEnglish2·2 days agothey better fuckin bill me for it
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansEnglish11·2 days agoI thought june was pride month
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansEnglish23·2 days agoThen I get stuck on … well they will rephrsse what I just said, and say/ask it back to me, and I’ll say no, no I phrased what I said specifically, because I meant exactly that.
they’re checking their own understanding by giving you an opportunity to correct them. by rephrasing it identically, it doesnt build any new understanding.
does it not matter to you to be understood by others? maybe that’s why you’re bashing therapy on the internet, asking for CBT worksheets instead of building rapport, and indirectly praising relationships with LLMs?
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansEnglish34·2 days agowhat makes you think their gender is even relevant to their practice?
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansEnglish36·2 days agoCBT being basically the only kind of approach to therapy that is actually empirically shown to reliably actually help most people.
what the fuck are you talking about? this is objectively incorrect based on current evidence-based practices. why the fuck are you spreading misinfo about my job?
CBT IS NOT the only arghh omggg you must be trolling me. I’m not wasting any more on this
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansEnglish27·2 days agoyeah they are definitely making dumb choices. it’s probably not because they’re all just dumb though. they probably have a lot of external factors pushing them towards that decision.
for example, many discussions tend to find ways to blame and shame them instead of responding with empathy. sort of like this comment. what benefit do you think you get by reframing things to blame the men here?
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansEnglish32·2 days agoyep, if someone disagrees with me, it’s usually because they’re unhinged. People rarely know things that I don’t, because I am very smart. there’s no way that anyone downvoted that post because it makes statements that are inconsistent with the current scientific knowledge around this subject, because no such knowledgeable exists. I know this because if it did exist i would know about it, as I’m very smart. my AI therapist told me so. and i see nothing wrong with that post. so anyone who does must be a fool.
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansEnglish28·2 days agotherapy does not have to be expensive.
around 70% of my caseload is Medicaid and they don’t pay a dime. the remainder is mostly DOC (prison), they only pay if we charge No Show fee. so they pay to not go to therapy. There’s 1-2 people who are funded by the county. they pay a $7 copay per session
Therapy isn’t expensive, luigi is.
As far as efficacy, we don’t even have data suggesting AI therapy is effective. we have ample data, however, showing that the most important part of therapy is not what you do but the relationship itself. not individual efforts. so your theory about what therapy does for us is wrong. there’s no relationship with an LLM. we have no reason to believe it would be any better than a paper journal and a CBT worksheet.
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Men are opening up about mental health to AI instead of humansEnglish96·2 days agoa terrible therapist at least has an ethics board
a terrible therapist at least has evidence-based interventions on their side
a terrible therapist at lest has the fact that ~80% of positive outcomes have nothing to do with the interventions or anything the therapist does besides show up and be cool (a statistic I remember quite well from grad school)
AI has none of these things
therapy isn’t fucking magic. it’s a relationship. you can’t have a relationship with an LLM. there’s no such thing as AI therapy, you’re just training it to tell you about CBT worksheets while you bitch about your problems like you’re in a nail salon
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•What would you have done?English151·2 days agoI thought the white ones were powder and I felt a lot less conflicted. but I see now that it looks lumpy, like more weed
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Sorry bout your heartEnglish391·2 days agoyeah they also fail to acknowledge the suicide rate or the amount of overtime or purchasing power of avg wages.
I’m not making any statements on any countries other than japan. but I’ll add a message to american weebs: STOP FETISHIZING JAPAN
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto News@lemmy.world•Zohran Mamdani says 'I don't think we should have billionaires'10·2 days agoNever heard of him. He’s apparently going to be the next Mayor of NYC, if you haven’t either.
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto News@lemmy.world•New Study Shows Disposable Vapes Are Worse Than Cigarettes2·2 days agoglad you found value! yes id say it’s 99% mental. the withdrawal is fuckin nothing man. watch someone trembling and shaking before they get their morning vodka, or writhing in pain detoxing off heroin, or being an anxious wreck for 30 days straight when their xanax gets cut off… THAT is withdrawal.
nicotine withdrawal, on the other hand, is nothing. is a little bit of brain fog, and if you want, an excuse to be irritable and eat extra candy for 3 days. it’s nothing.
once the physical detox is done you’re left with a LOT of brainwashing to undo. that’s the mental part. you gotta remind yourself that nicotine does nothing for you, all the benefits and advantages are lies that your addicted mind has told you to protect and perpetuate its dependency, and that you’re committed to celebrating a smoke free life. that’s it!
and the best part is… . you can undo your brainwashing before you quit smoking. smoke all you want, just pay attention to the lies, set a quit date, and don’t mope about it
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPto Linux@lemmy.ml•Alright fine I admit it, I want to learn Linux1·2 days agooh yea? I’m wondering if the program I already have will work. ever heard of a program called Macrium reflect? I installed it and never used it lol. adventure time
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Uplifting News@lemmy.world•Finnish presidential home and presidential castle raise trans inclusive pride flags for a week.English4·2 days agoIt absolutely would not. There would need to be something behind it.
Would it have meaning during a Democratic government though?
Yeah I think a lot of it is also a form of masking. Like necessary functional masking. Hard to go about your day saying “miserable and want to die, can i get a latte”. It takes a minute to drop that mask when you’re in a position to do so, even with practice!
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Uplifting News@lemmy.world•Finnish presidential home and presidential castle raise trans inclusive pride flags for a week.English33·2 days agoAre these gestures empty or meaningful?
TimewornTraveler@lemmy.dbzer0.comto News@lemmy.world•New Study Shows Disposable Vapes Are Worse Than Cigarettes3·2 days agooh you’re talking about a whole different drug. yeah, the vape pens are problematic for sure. they are way too strong to be a medicinal dose.
if you’re actually taking medication, you want to take exactly as much as needed to achieve the desired effects. building tolerance is one of many potential criteria for developing a substance use disorder.
the dry herb vapes are nice, though. I broke mine a while ago and have been using just a glass piece. been using CBD flower, and noticed i increased my use this past week. ironically, I think my lungs are a bit worse than when i was vaping (nicotine) lol because I’m replacing it with more smoke! oh well, can cut back on CBD too! not going back to the nicotine shackles either way. day 6 feels amazing.
That’s incredible. I wonder how long it will take. Sounds like swapping to Thunderbird now on my existing email accounts is the move. I’ll get used to the client then create the new email once they launch theirs. Beats paying for my own domain or locking in to Proton/Tuta