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Cake day: February 13th, 2024

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  • If you’ve only got a year left, do some wild stuff different from your current life, experience all the things you won’t be able to experience after. Do all the things that you’d say no to like traveling cheaply/hitchhiking/walking, falling in love carelessly, speaking freely, and even starving, and disappointing people.

    There are no experiences once you opt out, so, yolo it unironically.

    Potentially at some point you think it’s still worthwhile living, but, if not, at least you experienced as much as you could.

    The sky’s the limit, most people don’t do things because of their long term effects and chance for death and harm - if you don’t have that limit - use it to your advantage




  • I eventually quit, I finally cold Turkey’d it, I combined it with quiting nicotine.

    I’ve tried to quit many times in the past, but this time has been the longest at 5 months or so

    The advice I have: Don’t plan to quit, at some point you’ll have the impulse to quit after it weighs on your head for a while, that’s when you just lean into it - in the spur of the moment, toss your stuff or put it away someplace that’s annoying to get it back out of. Be as fast about this as possible as to not give time to the little voice that says “one more”: catch your brain off guard.

    Then importantly, ensure to not substitute your habit with something else, like binge snacking or another drug - just accept that you’re gonna be uncomfortable - and embrace the discomfort - potentially make use of a fidget toy - but I found success in just destroying the habit rather than replacing/redirecting it. It took a couple weeks before it no longer was on my mind.

    Finally: don’t beat yourself up if it takes a couple attempts to break the habit, each time I quit I got better at quiting.

    It took a few weeks before I felt like it was all out of my system, and I started feeling healthier and better and more productive and more myself, and now I actually decline weed when offered because I like my sobriety. Mama Ganja taught me a lot, and she’s taught me all she can, and no I have moved on.






  • When the headlines are about random maga types being quoted calling her “little whore” and n-words - it’s clear that yeah, the -isms are indeed out and about, the media is just reporting it.

    The reality cannot be denied, they aren’t deep faking the clips.

    The maga crowd dosnt counter her policies, her voting record, her career, her speech, her age, her cognitive function

    They go after what she was born with and what that crowd has been indoctrinated to hate.

    That’s where the ism’s come from.