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Cake day: January 19th, 2025

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  • My beloved gaybro, I responded to you in a previous thread. This seems to be weighing on you quite a bit. I think you may need to ask yourself “why am I afraid of being gay?” Your sexuality is probably not as big of a deal as you think. But for some reason that is known only to you, this topic keeps intruding on your mind. I’m glad you feel safe asking these questions here. I’m glad this community exists for you. But you may need to do some more serious self reflection on where your true fears and concerns lie before we can give any helpful guidance.


  • denteleite@lemm.eetoGayBros@lemmy.worldSex in Bromance
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    24 days ago

    Follow your intuition, dude. You have laid it out fairly clearly here that you think having anal sex with your friend may lead to him having romantic feelings for you, which you are worried would change the dynamic that is working for you now. So my advice is to take this sentiment and share it with your friend. He’s the only one who can give you that reassurance.



  • denteleite@lemm.eetogondaily@lemm.eePolitics
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    2 months ago

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts. My perspective is that the people who think these comments are apolitical are people who think that their way of life is the “default.” That anyone who deviates from this way of living is flawed or worse, against them. I think it is really hard for them to accept that other people can happily exist in ways that are foreign to them. Maybe they even feel that suffering is a requirement to a “valid” life. As an American, it’s really hard to have a conversation or discussion about this because American politics has become so polarized. I stand with human rights as my political view. I think both Democrats and Republicans have done a lot to make it difficult for conversation to happen. I’m not really sure what the solution is. It is hard to be caught in the middle of.