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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • I think it is something more of an ego thing. I never was in this position but many people explained to me that they feel offended if I am late.
    I only feel annoyed in such situation that I have to wait and can’t do anything before the person arrives. Being so often late myself I don’t think I could be truly angry though.

    Sorry I didn’t read it but I have adhd and it would be ableist to expect me to /s?

    God you guys really can make a super long comments have you thought of me? How do I feel seeing such a long wall of text and being excluded from discussion? /s

    All in all I won’t feel guilty for being late but I won’t feel entitled either. It’s my fault but it’s pointless to feel guilty if it happened. Not good for your mental health. Generally guilt is counterproductive and entitlement is weird.
    I try to not be late but if it happens it happens.