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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • Ahh, old hanging balls, gotchya xD

    Yeah the medium of text can be tricky to convey meaning sometimes, I’m a pretty sarcastic person (gotta love using humour to cope with every situation, so healthy…) with a very deadpan kinda delivery on a lot of it, so I often find myself wondering if my intent came across well over text. Tricky indeed.

    Anyway you’re cool, and thanks for taking the time to reply so thoughtfully :-)

    Now, I’m going to go back to being drenched in a cold sweat! It seems that’s today’s COVID symptom roulette wheel choice! 💦☉_☉💦









  • American Gods, Rings of Power, Good Omens, the Expanse, Man in the high castle, the Last of us, etc etc.

    It’s not always as good of a selection as other services, but it’s got a fair few gems on there and a good amount of back catalogue films and tv shows that are fab :-)

    And the fact that they collect so much stuff that would otherwise not be available at all (usually because its only on some random foreign streaming service and refuses to work with netflix) is where they really shine.

    That said, I immediately stopped using it when they brought adverts in to the paid subscription. I’m not paying to watch adverts, sorry, no.




  • Haha yeah that stuff is great :-) Bonding at its finest!

    Not quite the same thing but reminds me of how my father would always tell me I have hollow legs, on account of the huge amounts I’d eat whilst remaining skinny. I mean, I’d have a proper big evening dinner, then a bit later a microwave lasagne, then another microwave meal, and maybe a bar or two of fruit and nut chocolate, and never put any fat on xD

    Growing teenagers for ya :P


  • I’ve been binge watching the fever dreams (⊙ᴗ⊙)

    I’m mostly worried about my mother, I caught it from my father (somehow, after seeing him like once last week in passing) and even though he isolated from her once he knew he had it, she tested positive yesterday too, …and she’s due to go on her first big trip abroad in her ENTIRE LIFE in like 4 days to Paris (we’re a bit lower class haha), supposed to be a big special once in a lifetime treat from her daughter, planned it for a year now :-(

    First time any of us have caught it too, my father is in the high risk category (twice over) so we’ve generally been careful this whole time, and we’ve been getting the boosters (ironically this year’s booster became available TODAY) but ya know it was going to happen eventually…

    But enough of my story of extremely bad timing, glad to hear you recovered without and lasting negative effects :-)


  • It’s good to have a positive outlook, but it’s also important to be realistic, and know when to move your energies elsewhere, I think.

    I could set my mind to becoming a good orchestral composer, but all I’d be doing is wasting years of my life and a lot of money and effort, because I know I’m not at all creative in that way. My creative strengths lie elsewhere.

    I could stick with it, and become at best a very derivative boring composer, but I wouldn’t reach my dream or being a good one.

    And I’d miss out on other dreams I could have been following that were more realistic and would bring me more happiness in the end, you know?

    But yeah, you also have to weigh that against pushing yourself past your limits, because maybe you’ll be great at something you wouldn’t have expected!

    I think in the end as with most things in life, it’s about finding a balance between idealism and realism that works best for you :-)





  • It sounds a little novel if nothing else, I hope it picks up :-)

    Man, all business/capitalism/personality-politics stuff aside, it must suck to be a developer, artist, writer, actor etc on something for years, pour your heart into it for a solid percentage chunk of your remaining lifespan on this Earth, and then have it fall flat.

    Especially if it’s not so much the thing you made, but stuff outside of your control that’s holding it back. Lacklustre marketing for example - I hadn’t even heard of this.