Is that even an option? I do not currently, but it seems like a good n thing to enable on your spouse’s phone…

Kudos for weaving in the toxic trait of infantilizing women.

I think the first trait is worse than the second. Waiting to do a chore knowing (1) it needs to be done, and (2) the other person will do it if you hold out long enough is such a jerk move. Although the second isn’t awesome either. I think it is safe to say, don’t do either of these things.

Agree about it not always being explicitly thought about. Weaponed also seemed to imply some sort of thought to me, but I couldn’t land on a good word.

“Guys don’t give a fuck.”

That’s it. That’s the toxic trait right there.

Not a guy, but the one that really gets me is willfully incompetence - particularly around household or family chores (and the mental load associated with them).

Nevermind the ordering and triangle shaped bread. What the f*** is the white stuff?!? Absolutely nothing on a PB&J should be white.

So I know it is just semantics, but for some reason I don’t label your description as a “woke mob” but rather just decent humans.

Yet, I do have an image of “woke mob” that is full of college-aged people who haven’t experienced any adversity, but have a desire to make a mark on the world and have chosen a really irritating way to do it. And unfortunately that very small segment of the population gives the right something to latch onto that demonstrates how unhinged the left is (even though the left is how you describe it).

I have an under desk treadmill and it is easily the best investment I’ve made for my fitness.

Taylor Swift, Star Wars, McDonald’s.

Is this about my husband? 😉

Fine, but it is just weird they didn’t have a notification in their restaurant regarding allergens and aren’t just paying him the requested settlement - like this is the strangest, most expensive path they could have taken.

Yup! This is mostly self regulating. If you (not you personally)are a real jerk, people don’t have to listen to you or amplifiy your message. It is actually kind of a beautiful thing to watch in practice.

Don’t they have notifications in their restaurants warning people about allergens? Also, it is cheaper to pay the guy the $50k he wants so long as he signs a doc that says Disney is not at fault. This is so strange (and terrible).

Pandora because I’m old. Also I don’t like the Spotify algorithm.

There are some weirdos on both sides of the aisle (remember Anthony Weiner?). But GOP def has that reputation.

Edit: I can see I’m being down voted - I suppose because it is nicer to think the folks we associate with politically wouldn’t mistreat women. But as a woman, I can tell you that political affiliation is not a good enough way to determine whether a man is likely to mistreat you. Al Franken took some unfortunate pictures while a woman slept. David Wu of Oregon resigned after being accused of making unwanted sexual advances toward a fundraiser’s daughter. Eric Massa of New York resigned to avoid an ethics investigation into his admitted groping and tickling of multiple male staffers. Harvey Weinstein was a huge donor to the Democrats. It is safest to say misbehaving men are the reason women choose the bear.

No, that is a deal breaker for me.

Tartar sauce.

For me, Stalin falls out of the cool category due to deaths under his leadership (about 3.3 million officially recorded victims).

I have always enjoyed Alice Roosevelt, Teddy Roosevelt’s daughter. She was brash, witty, at full of antics. Here’s an example: When it came time for the Roosevelt family to move out of the White House, Alice buried a Voodoo doll of the new first lady, Nellie Taft, in the front yard.

Like Armie Hammer?