Where do you stand on body hair? A lot? A little? None at all? Does it differ by the gender of your partner(s)?

I’m realizing that a big turn on for me is feeling a very natural, human connection, so I tend to prefer body hair being unmanicured. Men, women and otherwise, I just like to see the hair growing where it naturally wants to.

I think especially pit hair and pubes are attractive to me. I was thinking about it the other day and it’s been that way since sex was a thing on my mind. I remember being 13 or 14 and sneaking looks up other boys sleeves to see if they had pit hair. No clue why that was the case, but it’s something that’s held up over time.

So yeah what about all of you?

  • deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com
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    6 days ago

    I prefer trimmed or shaved bush, otherwise it can get unruly. But full bush is fine.

    Armpits and arms I don’t really care.

    Leg hair is a big no, I just can’t. I love smooth legs on a woman.

    Facial hair, nope. Hairy nips too lol

  • MTK@lemmy.world
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    6 days ago

    All natural with like some trimming. I don’t think he should have a bush, but I think that natural looks great. The most important part is just to be comfortable. At the end of the day, I don’t care really about the looks too much. I care about the other person feeling comfortable with themselves.

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    6 days ago

    Personally, my wife and I both like:

    No pubic hair on either of us

    Male moderately hairy, more garden than jungle Female: as hairless as possible

  • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 days ago

    For women, I have no preference.

    About men, I’m not into very hairy men, but I like to kiss a face with a small beard.

    Specifically for oral sex, I prefer trimmed pubic hair (for boys and girls). I don’t like having my nose in a huge bush

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    7 days ago

    Prefer no hair. If I’m going to lick it I don’t want to cough up a furball later.

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    7 days ago

    I love any amount of hair 🤤 tbh completely bald is a little weird for me, it looks plasticy. I really love hair! Hair-on-hair interaction just feels right, especially on balls.

    • instructions_unclear92@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      7 days ago

      Ugh yes, hair on hair does feel nice. And that sensation of deep throating until your nose is buried in their pubes.

      Idk, just reminds me that humans are hairy, sweaty, musky, sexy animals. It sounds weird to type it out like that but that shit makes me feral lmao.

  • GCanuck@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    Aesthetically, neutral.

    Practically, I hate hair in my throat. I’d rather go down on a shaven woman than one with hair.

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      7 days ago

      Exact same! Though I find trimmed sufficient to make oral comfortable on a vulva. On testicles, I’m slightly more bothered by the hair.

    • ramble81@lemmynsfw.com
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      7 days ago

      Similar here. I prefer smooth, as I love going down on a woman, but having hair is not a turn off, it’s just a preference.

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 days ago

    Funny enough, body hair is one of the few things that I consider to be an absolute turn off. I don’t mind normal amounts of it for any gender as long as it’s groomed and will tolerate it, but I don’t ever find it aesthetically attractive. I don’t like the way it feels to touch or how it feels in my tongue. I also keep myself shaved smooth though, so take my opinion with a grain of salt I guess.

    • instructions_unclear92@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      7 days ago

      It’s a totally valid preference to have, especially considering the sensory angle (hair on the tongue, as you mentioned). I didn’t consider asking about hair on one’s own body, but yeah if you like the feeling of being clean shaven yourself, that probably informs the preference as well. Interesting to think about!

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    7 days ago

    IDGAF.

    It’s their body. Seriously, for me, I never cared much at all. I’m hetero, and I always thought it was weird that women shaved legs and armpits. Like, why? That tend to have much finer hair to begin with, it’s usually soft, and it’s pleasant to touch. Stubble sucks, and there’s such a short window when it isn’t there.

    By the time shaving pubes vegetable became super popular, I had been eating hairy pussy for a decade or so at least. Play with it for a while before getting in their, and loose hairs aren’t a problem. Smooth it out amd get in there, no problem.

    But, it isn’t like there’s anything wrong with shaving or trimming either. Smooth legs are fun in their own way, and you can see their lines better. Trimmed pubes are fluffy and fun. Smooth shaved are slick, slippery slopes of sexiness. Stubble still sucks though.

    For real, it’s all fun, it’s all nice looking in its own way.

    • instructions_unclear92@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      7 days ago

      That was kind of my question: Why? I understand doing it for personal comfort, but I’ve never understood how shaving became an expectation of mainstream beauty standards, especially for women. Just let people have their own standards, you know?

      Agree with you that stubble sucks though, it’s like the worst of both worlds lol. Also doesn’t it get itchy? When I was 16 or 17 growing belly hair for the first time I tried shaving it and it was awful, never done it since. The stubble just ruined me.