• Auzy@beehaw.org
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    2 months ago

    Absolutely. I agree with that and it’s a good point

    It would need to be applied in a generic way though. I feel based on the article it feels like they’re asking for special treatment.

    That being said not everything that causes distress actually matters. I used to care about things like even my hair cut. I used to be extremely self conscious.

    Growing up now, I realise it doesn’t actually matter and I’m actually fairly happy with myself (in fact, I just ended up shaving my head lol and don’t care that anyone finds it stupid anymore lol).

    Another point though would be whilst a very large amount of money might make a small number of people happy, the same money could also be spent to promote inclusion for all trans people and lead to better outcomes.

    But I’ve never asked my trans friend what she thinks (so I do accept my opinion could be plain wrong).

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      2 months ago

      I used to care about things like even my hair cut. I used to be extremely self conscious.

      That is nothing like dysphoria, and your equating of the two experience indicates a very significant lack of understanding of the trans experience.

      I’m trans, and I used to be self conscious about my hair, but it didn’t cause me pain or dysphoria. Then I transitioned, and after surgeries and hormones, my body finally felt the way it should, no more pain or dysphoria. Guess what though, I’m still self conscious about my hair, because it’s entirely unrelated to my experience as a trans person…

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        2 months ago

        Why isn’t that an example of BDD? https://bdd.iocdf.org/professionals/signs-symptoms/

        You seem to be implying that BDD only affects Trans people… Just so you know, I was actually depressed for a lot of my life (and yes, there is lots of surgery, or medical assistance I could have done to improve that. I was actually voted the quietest person in my school). I didn’t get a date until I was 20 because of lack of confidence.

        Here in Australia though, not sure about US/Canada, but it’s worth noting most therapies are covered with the exception of some cosmetic: https://www.drmichaelkernohan.com.au/blogs/will-medicare-cover-gender-affirmation-surgery/ . Even HRT is covered. The difference appears to be that Adam Apple does seem covered in Australia… I feel that should be there too though.

        In the case of the article, there’s nothing that has stopped her getting HRT and everything else covered. There’s no laws stopping her getting cosmetic surgery. She simply doesn’t want to pay for that component (and a huge amount of the cosmetic component is already probably covered technically). I don’t feel there would be no fair way to provide facial cosmetic surgery without basically covering all cosmetic surgery for free. As I’m not sure how you’d even define what is covered by it

        What kind of cosmetic surgery specifically do you believe should be covered for free?

        • Gaywallet (they/it)@beehaw.org
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          Hey dude, this is a trans space. You should not barge in and start fighting trans people. That’s not nice be(e)havior. If you want to engage with people you don’t understand, you need to do so by treating them with good faith and listen to them.