I’m on time this time, soo: back to our regularly-scheduled programming? If you’re unsure, please post it – I think we all have pretty liberal definitions of “naughty” fun :-)

  • lazyneet@programming.dev
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    1 month ago

    My sexy fun for the year seemed to start and end in July. It seems I can’t get much, but that doesn’t stop me from trying. I brought a gay friend to a BDSM group a couple days ago, and he politely observed and listened to people talk. Very quiet and non-confrontational sort of guy. I don’t think he’s interested in me.

    I’ve also taken an interest in niche dating sites - made an account on Duolicious and managed to make contact with a metrosexual 24-year-old, but he’s so incredibly shy and reserved that I don’t think it’s going anywhere. I also found a site called Sissy Island, but they’re having server errors. If I could date only in femboy and sissy circles, especially if the crowd skews more to Gen Y, I couldn’t ask for more. My sexuality is abnormal, and I guess I’m going against the grain by avoiding people I’m not attracted to, since the standard for my generation seems to be having no standards.

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      1 month ago

      Have fun but be safe, my friend. Make sure you trust these niche sites before you use them. You can never know what the site is going to do with all you sensitive info.

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        1 month ago

        I know. I’m privacy conscious and have software dev and IT training. I’m a lot better than most zoomers in that regard. I’m just hoping that my niche actually exists in the real world and isn’t purely a rhetorical construct invented to get underage queers to join discord servers and talk about identity issues. I would hope glowies have better things to do than infiltrate the gay community. I would also hope that the liminal space of looking like a girl but not identifying as one is a common shared experience. My litmus test is age, so the more 40something and 50something femboys and sissies I see, the more secure I am in the label’s legitimacy. Do girly boys hold a special place in your heart?

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          1 month ago

          They have a place in my heart but not a special one. All the boys are nice. Just like I like more feminine and more masculine women, too 🙂