Communist_Synthesizer@lemmy.world to Political Memes@lemmy.world · edit-214 days agoWhere is Chris Hansen when you need him?lemmy.worldimagemessage-square121fedilinkarrow-up1682arrow-down134file-text
arrow-up1648arrow-down1imageWhere is Chris Hansen when you need him?lemmy.worldCommunist_Synthesizer@lemmy.world to Political Memes@lemmy.world · edit-214 days agomessage-square121fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareFuglyDuck@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up24·14 days agoOr coerced in some way. Probably both.
minus-squarerayyy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up13·14 days agoYes, much like nearly half of America. Lies, threats and promises pushed by a delusional bully, that are baseless but believed by weak people.
minus-squareFlying Squid@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up41·14 days ago“When you’re rich, they let you do it.” Apparently we now know who’s pussy he grabbed. Ick.
minus-squareCrikeste@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up12arrow-down1·14 days agoThis has got some weird “it’s a woman’s fault if they’re sexually assaulted” vibe. If anything, she is coerced. Chill on blaming victims.
minus-squareXeroxchasechase@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down12·14 days agoOh well, I should’ve known it’d come to this… Anyway, you might want to chill on victimsing her and dismissing her agency. Or better yet, you can just take a sincere question at face value…
minus-squareWirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up12·edit-213 days agoA father-daughter dynamic means he had full control over her formative years and had full ability to groom her. I highly doubt he was a normal parent for 18 years then suddenly acted creepy and she was just ok with it. Without speaking to her as a person, it’s certain that if something’s happening it’s the result of grooming, therefore making her an SA victim. We can recognize that as the tragedy it is and still think she’s a bad person for other reasons, these aren’t mutually exclusive.
minus-squareXeroxchasechase@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·13 days agoThanks. It’s obvious she was raised in an abusive family, but still surprise me. I definitely did’nt mean to blame the victim, just understand.
minus-squareWirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up6·13 days agoAh I understand, sorry for being blunt but there’s a lot of people acting in bad faith when they question victim’s actions in abusive situations. Rule of thumb is once abuse is involved, don’t assume people will react rationally, you may accidentally say something insensitive.
minus-squareCrikeste@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down5·14 days agoI did take the question at face value, the face value was disgusting. You have big “grab them by the pussy, they let you do it” energy.
And she LET him?
She’s been groomed.
Or coerced in some way. Probably both.
Yes, much like nearly half of America. Lies, threats and promises pushed by a delusional bully, that are baseless but believed by weak people.
“When you’re rich, they let you do it.”
Apparently we now know who’s pussy he grabbed. Ick.
This has got some weird “it’s a woman’s fault if they’re sexually assaulted” vibe. If anything, she is coerced. Chill on blaming victims.
Oh well, I should’ve known it’d come to this… Anyway, you might want to chill on victimsing her and dismissing her agency. Or better yet, you can just take a sincere question at face value…
A father-daughter dynamic means he had full control over her formative years and had full ability to groom her.
I highly doubt he was a normal parent for 18 years then suddenly acted creepy and she was just ok with it.
Without speaking to her as a person, it’s certain that if something’s happening it’s the result of grooming, therefore making her an SA victim.
We can recognize that as the tragedy it is and still think she’s a bad person for other reasons, these aren’t mutually exclusive.
Thanks. It’s obvious she was raised in an abusive family, but still surprise me. I definitely did’nt mean to blame the victim, just understand.
Ah I understand, sorry for being blunt but there’s a lot of people acting in bad faith when they question victim’s actions in abusive situations.
Rule of thumb is once abuse is involved, don’t assume people will react rationally, you may accidentally say something insensitive.
I did take the question at face value, the face value was disgusting. You have big “grab them by the pussy, they let you do it” energy.
Huh?