• candybrie@lemmy.world
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      1 month ago

      Slurs about a community are often not to be said by anyone but a person in that community trying to reclaim the slur. Maybe it should be “no one is allowed to say slurs,” but there seems to be healing involved in taking back those words.

    • SolOrion@sh.itjust.works
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      1 month ago

      It’s a slur so… saying it is what makes people think you’re racist lol.

      I generally assume if someone is using the n-word anonymously that they’re either black or a racist.

      It’s not like people have arbitrarily decided that only asians can say the word refrigerator- there’s history behind the word.

    • zzx@lemmy.world
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      It has a lot to do with the word being used pretty recently historically in a horrible context.

      Also keep in mind that in the US, there are genuinely still plenty of actually racist people. In fact, there are still people using the slur as a slur. I don’t think it’s very odd culturally if you consider this.