• pinkpint@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 hours ago

    If I’m also horny then yes sometimes but he better also finger me, I’d rather a quickie fuck though. If I’m not horny then no, I don’t mind if he jacks off though.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    9 hours ago

    Sort of the opposite. I have finished him that way when it’s gone on long enough I’m sure I am not going to cum anymore, but otherwise no, if short on time would rather do something we both get something out of. So our quickies are PIV - occasionally I don’t get off if it is really quick but in that case (since it doesn’t happen often) the frustration usually makes the next time better.

  • kiwicheese@lemmy.world
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    11 hours ago

    Kind of opposite. My girlfriend would give me a hand job because she wasn’t horny when I was. Then suddenly ask me to finish doggy style. I assumed she got horny enough.

    After a couple of times I told her that she feels different inside when this happens.

    Then she told me that it’s not that she gets horny, it’s just that her arm gets tired. I then had to tell her I’d rather just stop, than fuck her when she’s not horny.

    • Mickey7@lemmy.worldOP
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      10 hours ago

      Zero fun to fuck someone who is not into it but just doing it to shut a guy up. She probably felt different because she was getting hot and her pussy juices started flowing

  • ladicius@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Is wanking off your partner really faster than fucking? Or is this question about the ordeal piv sex puts on the woman? Genuinely curious.

    • Mickey7@lemmy.worldOP
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      1 day ago

      As a guy, I would think it has to be more involved for the female to get ready for PIV sex. It’s not like you can just shove it in. And…after it’s over she’s oozing out cum for the next hour or so. Quick and neat with a hand job.

      • Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        1 day ago

        Sorry in mask a guy but personally I’d rather wait for PIV later than a rushed handie now.

        That said, I’ve had girls that were down with a quickie before heading out. How they dealt with the aftermath I’m not entirely sure but I’ve always owned bidets so I’m sure they managed fine.