Also, it’s very normal for straight women to appreciate beautiful women. When we look at porn, often I’ll focus on the woman, because I know how that feels, so instead of thinking “what I’d like to do to him” I am thinking “what would it feel to be her”, understand? But tried sex with women and nope, is not like sex for me. Not distressing just nothing there, I am heterosexual.

Having said all that - my kids were raised without any fear around sexual preference and all have been confident in whether they were into men, women, or both, from the start of their sexuality. So I do agree it’s family/social pressure or expectations a lot of the time. When those are not present, kids do find their way.

Beautiful height and lovely boobs but it looks like you are missing a few ribs!

I agree with swingers club but if you are going as a single guy it’s usually either really expensive or hard to get in.

But one of the funniest things to ever happen to me was getting fucked by my husband in a swingers club, so into it, got off so hard I pushed him out, looked up and there was a crowd watching us, that was not there when we started and I was so centered on the sex I had no idea until we stopped. Laughed so hard.

On SLS or FetLife sometimes voyeurs will put a request, some couples like that alright.

Glory Holes flat no from me so no idea, sorry.

Sounds like an ideal outcome, that’s good to hear.

In this particular situation, if the ladies are into each other, my strong suggestion is just to watch, let them be with each other unless your fiancee draws you in very explicitly. Let them lead, especially Lara if she is the slowest sexually and might get overwhelmed.

And think about it a lot - how will you feel if Lara responds more to Nami than she does with you?

It’s so hard to know before trying it. I don’t think it’s a bad idea, if you are all close and trust each other, I have enjoyed (the other sort of) threesome so much but with guys who got off seeing me with another guy. Is this how you feel? Are you turned on by the idea of someone else pleasuring Lara? Or do you just think if it’s a girl it doesn’t count in some way? I wouldn’t count on that feeling holding up under the pressure of actually seeing it.

I get off on being in the other side of this equation and always think it’s such a good example of:

Just because something gets you off, doesn’t mean that’s the way the world should work.

Some guys take these feelings to mean women are submissive in all aspects of life, or worse, should be. That’s a fast track to a bad society. I’m capable, work a professional job, train the dogs, they are more disciplined for me than my husband, it’s not anything I like outside of sexually, comfortable taking care of myself.

But seeing a guy get turned on when I kneel? Holy fuck that is hot.

physically, that’s a toughie. In general, I’m not really into skinny people or muscular men - though buff women are a major plus. Curvier folks tend to catch my eye. I also feel that I have some contrasts between genders - I have higher preference for taller, muscular, energetic women, and shorter, , average men. Also short hair on women and long on men are great - I don’t know why more guys don’t let their hair grow. But the opposites are not real dealbreakers.

This makes sense to me, you like more androgynous and less sharply masculine or feminine people. Also makes sense because people willing to buck gender norms are probably (not absolutely, but probably) more open minded in other ways.

It looks like a painting but you are one gorgeous man. So happy you found love with your equally hot wife.

Yeah she looks like my height and weight but I can’t get that perfect balance of everything, she is lean with great lines, obviously has a healthy amount of fat (boobs, smoothness everywhere) but abs too - how? If ever I have enough fat for boobs, it collects also in belly and ass! Just jealous, lol, and it’s a great photo.

I’ve written about this before but my long term ex had huge loads and ack, terrible horrible taste. As I didn’t have experience with oral, I thought all guys were like that, and couldn’t for the life of me understand how anyone could enjoy oral sex. It was really nauseatingly unpleasant. Could only spit it out and brush my teeth.

Well, next guy I fucked had low volume neutral tasting cum and I had a big moment of revelation. Husband is the same way, and both of them are once or twice (or thrice) a day guys, and vasectomized ex was more a once a week guy and so ridiculously fertile it was kinda problematic. Which makes me wonder if the literal sperm tastes bad, and also if waiting days makes more volume.

You can count me among the women who don’t prefer big loads.

Ok if that’s real it’s an impressive body, perfect.

SwingLifeStyle. Literally just SLS.com to get there. I am sure it depends where you are, but here it was pretty active.

Now? In bed.

But when we were swinging, SLS app was pretty good, for over-30 crowd anyway. And assuming you are looking for a couple or a man.

If looking at my whole life?

8 years hookups just with friends and acquaintances.

Then monogamous for 20 years, until 5 years of no sex then I got a lover and realized I wasn’t gonna make it celibate the rest of my life.

Then a couple years of drama, some swinging, etc.

Then I met my eventual husband, online. We had some years of swinging but for health reasons about 8 years monogamous now. I can do this easier with him because we fuck at least once a day, for a dozen years so far.

I can’t say it’s common, and wouldn’t ever have considered asking some random good looking guy to join us, but straight guy MFM is probably more common than you think. When men on the internet talk about threesomes they seem to be thinking about 2 women, but I’ve only done the other kind and it seems like way more fun - I’m straight so nothing really exciting about adding another woman, but two guys? So many things you can do whether they are into each other or not.

I do think it’s more common for couples to approach women though, as I have been propositioned by couples and probably all women have.

I think it’s normal to have oddball hangups, nobody gets experienced without some baggage, basically. You know this is a you problem so I don’t think it’s an anti-sexual-woman thing, more like an OCD thing, right? I think the answer here is to bring your own condoms, or go shopping for them together since it’s a planned thing.

Like hangups? I was anorexic and am unsettled by having now what is a more conventionally beautiful figure because I still see it as fat. If you squish my belly innocently, thinking only good things, all that bad shit is running through my head. Not your fault but it will turn me right off.

And for whatever reason, pegging is the least sexy activity I can imagine, I hate the thought of it, the equipment, everything about it. Don’t even ask.

I think that’s it for the unusual and irrational ones.

You chose right, your wife is beautiful and must be open-minded and sexy as heck.

Not on a date but the weirdest unsolicited proposition I ever got was $10 to:

“Slap me, knock me down, sit on my belly, tell me if I am fat or skinny, and smell my feet.”

I thought it was worth more than $10 and also must suck so bad to have such a remarkably specific fetish.

Direct cervix bump maybe, yowch.

Somehow your eyes glowing like you are some sort of demon incubus is ridiculously hot, wow.