• Cyrus Draegur@lemm.ee
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    26 days ago

    I got a girlfriend in 2023

    The experience was mid.

    She’s cool and we still hang out sometimes but being in a relationship kinda sucked and I’m glad we reloaded the friend save state.

    I’m just not cut out for being someone’s only partner.

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      26 days ago

      Exclusivity in a romantic relationship is a social construct. Look into ENM. It might not fit you or it just might.

        • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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          26 days ago

          Nothing wrong with being solo poly. Also nothing wrong with choosing to be single for those who prefer it.

          Personally I hated monogamy but also I’m happiest married, and so I’m very grateful to have found someone who feels the same as me.