I’m F24 from Lithuania and I’m just curious if guys of all ages look at selfies girls post like the one on my page and think dirty things or start to imagine nsfw stuff about me? I won’t judge either way, I’m just super curious. Love to chat about it

  • Anatares@lemmynsfw.com
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    21 hours ago

    It’s the internet and the misogynists tend to be louder for the same reasons they feel their behavior is appropriate. They see many others behaving the same way and there’s much less push back than there needs to be.

    When i was young i definitely was more on the fantasy side but not exclusively.

    After being in a few relationships and actually having women as friends, as well as spending time in prominently queer spaces, i don’t really get anything from a selfie(or any image, really) a stranger posts online.

    I’m far more interested, in both cases, to see people showing each other care and affection. It just makes them more real i guess, like they have lives and emotions and stuff.

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    22 hours ago

    I like women very much and not ashamed to admit it. But start to fantasize in my head just because of one picture doesn’t work for me.

    Call me out on my next sentence but I see a picture of a woman and the first thing coming to thought is how lucky I am to be able to see it. I don’t need to go all caveman and start on dirty thoughts.

  • StrangeBedfellow@lemmynsfw.com
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    22 hours ago

    Not systematically, it very much depends on how the selfie is presented. If you are overtly seeking sexual attention, then yes, probably, but if not, then no. The days when I can imagine I’d be attractive to women much younger than myself are well and truly over.

  • Edwardrotik@lemmynsfw.com
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    22 hours ago

    I have a “rule”

    I will gladly enjoy what someone shared in scale with the apparent intent of the material.

    So, a pretty woman sharing a clothed picture (even if the clothing is very sexy), isn’t something I’m going to enjoy on a sexual level. I might think for a bit that it would be nice if she shared more than that, but that’s where it ends.

    If a woman shares a picture of her in clothing, but does so while saying something like “guess what I look like under this”, that’s a direct invitation to fantasize.

    This means that the regular selfie on your profile isn’t something that would normally lead me to sexual thoughts. And it didn’t this time because the way you asked the question was interesting enough that I wanted to think about that rather than enjoy the implied permission to enjoy it sexually via fantasy.

    I’ve never been the kind to sexualize pictures of women that weren’t already sexual. I have no idea why, but even bikinis and lingerie pics never seemed sexual to me.

    Don’t get me wrong, I very much enjoy such pictures! But it’s more the way I enjoy a painting, or someone dancing. It’s beautiful, but not sexual for me.

    Tbh, I don’t even assume outright nudes are sexual any more. I used to, but when all those celebrities’ pictures got leaked years ago, it made me rethink that. Now, if I know the person didn’t share the images, I avoid them. If the picture looks like they may not have intended to share it with everyone, it’s the same thing.

    Not sure if you wanted that kind of response, but that’s my take on things. You’re very pretty though, and if you ever decide to share more of your body with the world, I’m quite sure they will make fpr wonderful fantasies.

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    23 hours ago

    No matter the age, if the woman is good looking, in good shape, and nude a guy is going to think about fucking them

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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    23 hours ago

    Early 30’s and No, I do not find a random selfie to be sexual in any way.

    If you’d like to engage in a sexual conversation, either flirt or present something in a sexual context that opens the door. Expecting to be doted on simply for presenting a selfie comes across as extremely narcissistic and juvenile to me personally. I don’t mean any of this a personal attack on you, just my general views based on the question you’ve asked.