• spujb@lemmy.cafeOP
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      16 days ago

      while it’s not intrinsically bad or evil, i would do internal investigation as to why your first reaction to seeing a picture of a woman was to comment on her breasts 🤨

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          16 days ago

          Is this your first time being told that women are human beings?

          I actually spend a lot of fucking time trying to encourage internet spaces to not make women feel like objects first and human people second, thank you very much.

          Your comment not only serves to normalize objectifying comments, it shows women that any time they ask not to be objectified they will be shot down.

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            15 days ago

            I said nothing of the sort. I affirmed that it is exactly as you say it is. Commonplace.

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              Normalization refers to social processes through which ideas and actions come to be seen as ‘normal’ and become taken-for-granted or ‘natural’ in everyday life.

              Your dismissive response to someone asking for better behavior normalizes both the original sexist behavior and your own act of dismissal. What you said isn’t half as important as the context in which you said it.

              The mods are aware of this and that’s why your comment was removed.

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                15 days ago

                You’re in shit posting and trying to police what people say and change something philosophically. As much as I agree to your sentiment, maybe read the room. We are here to fuck around.

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                  15 days ago

                  “It’s ok to act like a bigoted piece of shit as long as the situation is right” that’s you

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                    15 days ago

                    I didn’t say anything bigoted. I simply stated that the Internet is known to be bigoted. Which is not a hard sell.

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                  15 days ago

                  i beg your pardon? trying to? your comment is removed, my friend. 😝 ending this conversation

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                    15 days ago

                    Wow. You go burr. Who cares? Fight your fight where it matters. Hopefully you block me so I don’t have to waste my time reading anything from you again.

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          16 days ago

          Everyone knows the internet is disgusting, that’s not the complaint. The complaint is that it shouldn’t be.